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Q, Do you agree with the explanation in these 3 theories on Relationship ???

Q, Which theory seems to be appropriate – 1 or 2 or 3 or all ?????

Do you agree with the explanation in these 3 theories ???

Which ones of these theories seems to be most appropriate, evident, real and practical explanations?

How much do you agree with these theories ?????

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Theory – 1

We Shout In Anger because ……………….

Is this correct ?
Do you agree by this ?

A Saint Asked His Disciples,

‘Why Do We Shout In Anger ?

Why Do People Shout At Each Other When They Are Upset ?’

Disciples Thought For A While,

One Of Them Said,

‘Because We Lose Our Calm,

We Shout For That.’

‘But, Why To Shout When The Other Person Is Just Next To You ?’

Asked The Saint.

‘Isn’t It Possible To Speak To Him Or Her With A Soft Voice ?

Why Do You Shout At A Person When You’re Angry ?’

Disciples Gave Some Other Answers But None Satisfied The Saint.

Finally He Explained,

‘When Two People Are Angry At Each Other,

Their Hearts Distance A Lot.

To Cover That Distance They Must Shout To Be Able To Hear Each Other.

The Angrier They Are,

The Stronger They Will Have To Shout To Hear Each Other Through That Great Distance.

‘ Then The Saint Asked,

‘What Happens When Two People Fall In Love ?

They Don’t Shout At Each Other But Talk Softly,

Why ?

Because Their Hearts Are Very Close.

The Distance Between Them Is Very Small…
The Saint Continued,

‘ When They Love Each Other Even More,

What Happens ?

They Do Not Speak,

Only Whisper And They Get Even Closer To Each Other In Their Love.

Finally They Even Need Not Whisper, They Only Look At Each Other And That’s All.

That Is How Close Two People Are When They Love Each Other.’

MORAL : When You Argue Do Not Let Your Hearts Get Distant,

Do Not Say Words That Distance Each Other More,

Else There Will Come A Day When The Distance Is So Great That You Will Not Find The Path To Return.

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Theory – 2

“I ANGRY BECAUSE I LOVE YOU”

Is this correct ?
Do you agree by this ?

I hate you because i love you, we fight because im scared to loose you, i get angry when boys go near you because i dont want you to leave me, I get mad when you dont reply back because i care !!!

Getting “the most angry” at someone you love the most, is very normal. Usually we are very close to someone we love.

We spend alot of time with, and around them. It could be a girl or boyfriend, Mom or Dad, Brother or Sister. So this means that with get angry only with the ones we love only, as it hurts badly when someone who means a lot,

someone whom you love, you care, hurts you !!

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Theory – 3

We always push those we want close to us away !!!

Is this correct ?
Do you agree by this ?

When we push the other person away, in a sense we are trying to create a bit of distance – to protect ourselves from caring too much and having to feel that fear of losing the relationship .

Sometimes getting angry with someone we love and pushing them away can also be a ‘test’ – we are unconsciously setting up a situation in which we act badly, to see if the other person ‘loves us enough’ to stick around. A bit of this sort of testing is normal near the start of any relationship – we want to know that if we reveal ourselves at our worst, we’ll still be accepted and loved. But if the testing is constant and goes on too long, it’s not a healthy dynamic, and can damage or ruin a relationship.

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Now Some great relationship quotes that I like & follow.

It is okay to be angry. It is never okay to be cruel.

Love means giving someone the chance to hurt you, but trusting them not to.

Love doesn’t hurt. Lying, cheating and screwing with people’s feelings and emotions hurts.

When it comes to relationships, remaining faithful is never an option but a priority. Loyalty is everything.

Don’t look for someone who will solve all your problems; look for someone who will face them with you.

Good relationships don’t just happen; they take time, patience and two people who truly want to work to be together.

You don’t really need someone to complete you. You only need someone to accept you completely.

Don’t mess with someone’s feelings just because you’re unsure of yours.

Don’t wait for the right person to come into your life. Rather, be the right person to come to someone’s life.

The best portion of your life will be the small, nameless moments you spend smiling with someone who matters to you.

Someone else doesn’t have to be wrong for you to be right.

A great relationship is about two things: First, appreciating the similarities, and second, respecting the differences.

A real person is not perfect, and a perfect person is not real.

If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn’t be in it.

It’s not so much what you say that counts, it’ how you make people feel.

Characterize people by their actions and you will never be fooled by their words.

If a friend is in trouble, don’t bother them by asking if there is anything you can do. Think of something appropriate and do it.

Sometimes it is better to be kind than to be right. We do not always need an intelligent mind that speaks, just a patient heart that listens.

In disagreements with loved ones, deal only with the current situation. Don’t bring up the past.

Let us remember that we can’t force anyone to love us. We can’t beg someone to stay when they want to leave and be with someone else. This is what love is all about. However, the end of love is not the end of life. It should be the beginning of understanding that love leaves for a reason, but never leaves without a lesson.

Everyone wants a perfect ending. But over the years I’ve learned that some of the best poems don’t rhyme, and many great stories don’t have a clear beginning, middle, or end. Life is about not knowing, embracing change, and taking a moment and making the best of it without knowing what’s going to happen next.

In human relationships, distance is not measured in miles but in affection. Two people can be right next to each other, yet miles apart. So stay in touch with those who truly matter to you. Not because it’s convenient, but because they’re worth the extra effort.

Never neglect the people who are most important to you simply because you think they will always be there. Because one morning you might wake up and realize you lost the moon while counting the stars.

True love isn’t about being inseparable; it’s about two people being true to each other even when they are separated.

When someone gives you their time, they are giving you a portion of their life that they will never get back. It’s one of the most precious gifts you can receive. Don’t waste it.

Good relationships are not just about the good times you share; they’re also about the obstacles you go through together, and the fact that you still say “I love you” in the end.

Say what you mean and mean what you say. Don’t expect others to read your mind, and don’t play games with their heads and hearts. Don’t tell half-truths and expect people to trust you when the full truth comes out. Half-truths are no better than lies. And don’t ignore someone you care about, because lack of concern hurts more than angry words.

Lies help no one in the long run. So… 1) Don’t say “I love you” if you don’t mean it. 2) Don’t say “I understand” if you have no clue. 3) Don’t say “I’m sorry” if you’re not. 4) Be honest with yourself and your loved ones.

Tell the truth, or eventually someone will tell it for you.

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• Great spirits have always encountered violent opposition from mediocre minds.

• We choose our joys and sorrows long before we experience them.

• Smile, it increases your face value.

• Always bear in mind that your own resolution to succeed is more important than any other one thing.

• Happiness is not a goal, it is a by-product.

• Men can only be happy when they do not assume that the object of life is happiness.

• A pessimist sees only the dark side of the clouds, and mopes; a philosopher sees both sides, and shrugs; an optimist doesn't see the clouds at all-he's walking on them.

• It's your aptitude not just your attitude that determines your ultimate altitude.

• The greatest discovery of my generation is that a man can alter his life simply by altering his attitude of mind.

• Whether you think you can or whether you think you can't, you're right.

• It is not the position, but the disposition.

• Men take only their needs into consideration, never their abilities.

• Believe and act as if it were impossible to fail.

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• For success, attitude is equally as important as ability.

• Human beings can alter their lives by altering their attitudes.

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• Our attitude toward life determines life's attitude towards us.

• Failure is always temporary, only giving up makes it permanent.

• Do a little more every day than you think you can.

• Character equals destiny.

• When character is gained, everything is gained.

• The best way to predict the future is to create it.

• Be critical of both new ideas and accepted wisdom.

• Things turn out best for the people who make the best of the way things turn out.

• Life is ten percent what happens to you and ninety percent how you respond to it.

• Keep your face to the sunshine and you can never see the shadow.

• People who never achieve happiness are the ones who complain whenever they're awake, and whenever they're asleep, they are thinking about what to complain about tomorrow.

• A healthy attitude is contagious but don't wait to catch it from others. Be a carrier.

• If you don't like something, change it. If you can't change it, change your attitude. Don't complain.

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• To change and to change for the better are two different things.

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• "Worry is a waste of emotional reserve."

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• "His face was closed like a safety vault; things locked in safety vaults are valuable; men did not care to feel that."

• "Show me your achievement - and the knowledge will give me courage for mine.

• "She could not have reached this white serenity except as the sum of all the colors, of all the violence she had known."

• "They talked quietly, with a feeling of companionship such as that of an old married couple; as if he had possessed her body, and the wonder of it had long since been consumed, and nothing remained but an untroubled intimacy."

• "I am a man who does not exist for others.

• "...the person who loves everybody and feels at home everywhere is the true hater of mankind. He expects nothing of men, so no form of depravity can outrage him."

• "I have come here to say that I do not recognize anyone's right to one minute of my life. . . . It had to be said. The world is perishing from an orgy of self-sacrificing."

• Perfection is an illusion we all aspire to achieve

• being perfect is boring...if u have flaws,u r interesting.

• I cant change myself becoz it is difficult to alter perfection.

• Do not confuse Excellance with Perfection,Excelllance we can aim for,perfection is totally God's business!

• Practice never makes a man prefect, perfect practice does that!!

• I've achieved PERFECTION only others differ on my views.

• I m perfect at perfection

• perfection....an illusion created by a lazy soul who doesn't wanna improve.

• Nobody is perfect, I am Nobody.

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• You are always doing something marginal when the boss drops by your desk.

• People are always available for work in the past tense.

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• The longer the title, the less important the job.

• Machines that have broken down will work perfectly when the repairman arrives.

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• Once a job is fouled up, anything done to improve it makes it worse.

• All vacations and holidays create problems, except for one's own.

• Success is just a matter of luck, just ask any failure.

• Mother said there would be days like this, but she never said there would be so many.

• Keep your boss's boss off your boss's back. This is what I'm doing wrong.

• Everything can be filed under 'miscellaneous.'

• Never delay the ending of a meeting or the beginning of a cocktail hour.

• To err is human, to forgive is not company policy.

• Anyone can do any amount of work provided it isn't the work he is supposed to be doing.

• Important letters that contain no errors will develop errors in the mail.

• The last person that quit or was fired will be the one held responsible for everything that goes wrong - until the next person quits or is fired.

• There is never enough time to do it right the first time, but there is always enough time to do it over.

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"I don't need a friend who changes when I change and who nods when I nod; my shadow does that much better." -Plutarch

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"The friend is the man who knows all about you, and still likes you." -Elbert Hubbard

"True friends stab you in the front." -Oscar Wilde

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"The man who has no imagination has no wings." -Muhammad Ali

"Action is the real measure of intelligence." -Napoleon Hill

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“Never go to bed mad. Stay up and fight.” -Phyllis Diller

“When angry, count to four; when very angry, swear.” -Mark Twain

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“All the things one has forgotten scream for help in dreams.” -Elias Canetti

“The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams.” -Eleanor Roosevelt

“Experience is a great teacher.” -John Legend

1. "The richest man in the world is not the one who has the most, but the one who needs the least."

2. "If you love life, don't waste time, for time is what life is made up of." - Bruce Lee

3. "As long as your going to be thinking anyway, think big." - Donald Trump

4. "When somebody challenges you, fight back. Be brutal, be tough." - Donald Trump

5. ”There is no vaccine against stupidity” – Albert Einstein

6. "Winners never quit, quitters never win" - Winston Churchill

7. "Meaning is what creates energy” – Anthony Robbins

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Q, Which theory seems to be appropriate – 1 or 2 or 3 or all ?????

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Theory – 1

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Theory – 2

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Theory – 3

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Now Some great relationship quotes that I like & follow.

It is okay to be angry. It is never okay to be cruel.

Love means giving someone the chance to hurt you, but trusting them not to.

Love doesn’t hurt. Lying, cheating and screwing with people’s feelings and emotions hurts.

When it comes to relationships, remaining faithful is never an option but a priority. Loyalty is everything.

Don’t look for someone who will solve all your problems; look for someone who will face them with you.

Good relationships don’t just happen; they take time, patience and two people who truly want to work to be together.

You don’t really need someone to complete you. You only need someone to accept you completely.

Don’t mess with someone’s feelings just because you’re unsure of yours.

Don’t wait for the right person to come into your life. Rather, be the right person to come to someone’s life.

The best portion of your life will be the small, nameless moments you spend smiling with someone who matters to you.

Someone else doesn’t have to be wrong for you to be right.

A great relationship is about two things: First, appreciating the similarities, and second, respecting the differences.

A real person is not perfect, and a perfect person is not real.

If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn’t be in it.

It’s not so much what you say that counts, it’ how you make people feel.

Characterize people by their actions and you will never be fooled by their words.

If a friend is in trouble, don’t bother them by asking if there is anything you can do. Think of something appropriate and do it.

Sometimes it is better to be kind than to be right. We do not always need an intelligent mind that speaks, just a patient heart that listens.

In disagreements with loved ones, deal only with the current situation. Don’t bring up the past.

In human relationships, distance is not measured in miles but in affection. Two people can be right next to each other, yet miles apart. So stay in touch with those who truly matter to you. Not because it’s convenient, but because they’re worth the extra effort.

Never neglect the people who are most important to you simply because you think they will always be there. Because one morning you might wake up and realize you lost the moon while counting the stars.

True love isn’t about being inseparable; it’s about two people being true to each other even when they are separated.

When someone gives you their time, they are giving you a portion of their life that they will never get back. It’s one of the most precious gifts you can receive. Don’t waste it.

Good relationships are not just about the good times you share; they’re also about the obstacles you go through together, and the fact that you still say “I love you” in the end.

Lies help no one in the long run. So… 1) Don’t say “I love you” if you don’t mean it. 2) Don’t say “I understand” if you have no clue. 3) Don’t say “I’m sorry” if you’re not. 4) Be honest with yourself and your loved ones.

Tell the truth, or eventually someone will tell it for you.

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