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Q, Do you agree with the explanation in these 3 theories on Relationship ???

Q, Which theory seems to be appropriate – 1 or 2 or 3 or all ?????

 Do you agree with the explanation in these  3 theories ???

Which ones of these  theories seems to be most appropriate, evident, real and practical explanations?

How much do you agree with these theories ?????

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Theory – 1

We Shout In Anger because ………………. 

Is this correct ?
Do you agree by this ?

A Saint Asked His Disciples,

‘Why Do We Shout In Anger ?

Why Do People Shout At Each Other When They Are Upset ?’

Disciples Thought For A While,

One Of Them Said,

‘Because We Lose Our Calm,

We Shout For That.’

‘But, Why To Shout When The Other Person Is Just Next To You ?’

Asked The Saint.

‘Isn’t It Possible To Speak To Him Or Her With A Soft Voice ?

Why Do You Shout At A Person When You’re Angry ?’

Disciples Gave Some Other Answers But None Satisfied The Saint.

 

Finally He Explained,

‘When Two People Are Angry At Each Other,

Their Hearts Distance A Lot.

To Cover That Distance They Must Shout To Be Able To Hear Each Other.

The Angrier They Are,

The Stronger They Will Have To Shout To Hear Each Other Through That Great Distance.

‘ Then The Saint Asked,

‘What Happens When Two People Fall In Love ?

They Don’t Shout At Each Other But Talk Softly,

Why ?

Because Their Hearts Are Very Close.

The Distance Between Them Is Very Small…
The Saint Continued,

‘ When They Love Each Other Even More,

What Happens ?

They Do Not Speak,

Only Whisper And They Get Even Closer To Each Other In Their Love.

Finally They Even Need Not Whisper, They Only Look At Each Other And That’s All.

That Is How Close Two People Are When They Love Each Other.’

 

MORAL : When You Argue Do Not Let Your Hearts Get Distant,

Do Not Say Words That Distance Each Other More,

Else There Will Come A Day When The Distance Is So Great That You Will Not Find The Path To Return.

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Theory – 2

“I ANGRY BECAUSE I LOVE YOU” 

Is this correct ?
Do you agree by this ?

I hate you because i love you, we fight because im scared to loose you, i get angry when boys go near you because i dont want you to leave me, I get mad when you dont reply back because i care !!!

Getting “the most angry” at someone you love the most, is very normal. Usually we are very close to someone we love.

We spend alot of time with, and around them. It could be a girl or boyfriend, Mom or Dad, Brother or Sister. So this means that with get angry only with the ones we love only, as it hurts badly when someone who means a lot, 

someone whom you love, you care, hurts you !!

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Theory – 3

We always push those we want close to us away !!!

Is this correct ?
Do you agree by this ?

When we push the other person away, in a sense we are trying to create a bit of distance – to protect ourselves from caring too much and having to feel that fear of losing the relationship .

Sometimes getting angry with someone we love and pushing them away can also be a ‘test’ – we are unconsciously setting up a situation in which we act badly, to see if the other person ‘loves us enough’ to stick around. A bit of this sort of testing is normal near the start of any relationship – we want to know that if we reveal ourselves at our worst, we’ll still be accepted and loved. But if the testing is constant and goes on too long, it’s not a healthy dynamic, and can damage or ruin a relationship.

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Now Some great relationship quotes that I like & follow. 

Myworldisinmyhand

It is okay to be angry. It is never okay to be cruel.
Love means giving someone the chance to hurt you, but trusting them not to.
Love doesn’t hurt. Lying, cheating and screwing with people’s feelings and emotions hurts.
When it comes to relationships, remaining faithful is never an option but a priority. Loyalty is everything.
Don’t look for someone who will solve all your problems; look for someone who will face them with you.
Good relationships don’t just happen; they take time, patience and two people who truly want to work to be together.
You don’t really need someone to complete you. You only need someone to accept you completely.
Don’t mess with someone’s feelings just because you’re unsure of yours.
Don’t wait for the right person to come into your life. Rather, be the right person to come to someone’s life.
The best portion of your life will be the small, nameless moments you spend smiling with someone who matters to you.
Someone else doesn’t have to be wrong for you to be right.
A great relationship is about two things: First, appreciating the similarities, and second, respecting the differences.
A real person is not perfect, and a perfect person is not real.
If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn’t be in it.
It’s not so much what you say that counts, it’ how you make people feel.
Characterize people by their actions and you will never be fooled by their words.
If a friend is in trouble, don’t bother them by asking if there is anything you can do. Think of something appropriate and do it.
Sometimes it is better to be kind than to be right. We do not always need an intelligent mind that speaks, just a patient heart that listens.
In disagreements with loved ones, deal only with the current situation. Don’t bring up the past.
Let us remember that we can’t force anyone to love us. We can’t beg someone to stay when they want to leave and be with someone else. This is what love is all about. However, the end of love is not the end of life. It should be the beginning of understanding that love leaves for a reason, but never leaves without a lesson.
Everyone wants a perfect ending. But over the years I’ve learned that some of the best poems don’t rhyme, and many great stories don’t have a clear beginning, middle, or end. Life is about not knowing, embracing change, and taking a moment and making the best of it without knowing what’s going to happen next.
In human relationships, distance is not measured in miles but in affection. Two people can be right next to each other, yet miles apart. So stay in touch with those who truly matter to you. Not because it’s convenient, but because they’re worth the extra effort.
Never neglect the people who are most important to you simply because you think they will always be there. Because one morning you might wake up and realize you lost the moon while counting the stars.
True love isn’t about being inseparable; it’s about two people being true to each other even when they are separated. 
When someone gives you their time, they are giving you a portion of their life that they will never get back. It’s one of the most precious gifts you can receive. Don’t waste it. 
Good relationships are not just about the good times you share; they’re also about the obstacles you go through together, and the fact that you still say “I love you” in the end.
Say what you mean and mean what you say. Don’t expect others to read your mind, and don’t play games with their heads and hearts. Don’t tell half-truths and expect people to trust you when the full truth comes out. Half-truths are no better than lies. And don’t ignore someone you care about, because lack of concern hurts more than angry words.
Lies help no one in the long run. So… 1) Don’t say “I love you” if you don’t mean it. 2) Don’t say “I understand” if you have no clue. 3) Don’t say “I’m sorry” if you’re not. 4) Be honest with yourself and your loved ones.
Tell the truth, or eventually someone will tell it for you.

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