Trust is a very important factor for all relationships


Trust is a very important factor for all relationships. When trust is broken, it is the end of the relationship. Lack of trust leads to suspicion, suspicion generates anger, anger causes enmity and enmity may result in separation.

A telephone operator told me that one day she received a phone call. She answered, “Public Utilities Board.” There was silence. She repeated, “PUB.” There was still no answer. When she was going to cut off the line, she heard a lady’s voice, “Oh, so this is PUB. Sorry, I got the number from my Husband’s pocket but I do not know whose number it is.”

Without mutual trust, just imagine what will happen to the couple if the telephone operator answered with just “hello” instead of “PUB”.

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10 comments on “Trust is a very important factor for all relationships

  1. Hmmmm…
    But your explanation does not resolve my problem or cant answer my question..
    I need to know about the reasons to lose trust and additionally way to avoid it…
    Please tell me about that ….
    Thanks

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  2. In any sought of relationship this TRUST factor is extremely important especially between people who are close to your heart, like your loved ones, your family!!!

    Sadly one can only realize its value only after your trust is broken by someone very special, by someone who’s very close to your heart !

    Ask me, I know how it feels, I have experienced myself and trust me brother
    Its bad, it just kills you from within !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    and I wish and pray that no one ever had to experience – their trust to be broken by a loved one !!!!
    May your life be filled with lots and lots of love
    and
    May your bond gets greater and greater between you and your loved ones !
    God bless ya Happy 🙂

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    • Lack of mutual understanding
      You gotta be a good listener which is one of the hardest skills to develop.

      At times you got to make some compromise and if you are not able to do so even that may impact greatly on your relationship

      If you are not actively working to build a safe emotional space, then you are probably building an unsafe one

      Take responsibility to express your needs and express them clearly and assertively.

      When a person feels he or she cannot express their needs to the other person, then this leads to a break down in trust.

      Don’t allow issues to go unresolved. When issues don’t get resolved, then resentments develop and fester. And when resentments develop then trust is lost.

      Trust is probably the most important ingredient in building an intimate relationship

      Now did ya get it ???

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  3. HI…
    Totally agreed with you Mr. Hemant…
    Lots of stories i have heard that supports the same…
    I think we all are mature enough to understand this one but i dont know what makes us more closer to this factor …
    Can you describe what helps me to get away from this….???

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