Internet and Infidelity : “Is it possible for a woman to love_two_or more men at the same time????”

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“Is it possible for a woman  to love_two_or more men at the same time????”

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“Is possible for a woman  to love_two_or more men at the same time?”

Can  a woman be in love with two or more men  at the same time ?

Why would a woman love two or more men at the same time ?

Is it possible for a  woman  to be intimate & share her intimate feelings of love and love making with more than one men at the same time be it on internet or in real ?

If yes,  then does every women can do the same?

If no,  then what is it ? is it love or is it lust ?

If you were to be facing such an issue, wherein,  somehow you get to know that the woman you love so deeply is  also in love with another man and is sharing exactly the same feelings  as she is doing with you, You are also surprised to know that she is getting intimate with other man in exactly the same manner  as she gets with you, but she is unaware of the fact that you got to know ?

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My question’s  …..

What is it ?

Is it True love or mere lust ? Is it possible for a woman to do such a thing ?

What should a man do if he finds out something like this about the woman he is madly in love with ?

Is it about loving certain qualities a particular person or persons has and not being able to let go of either. Both men probably have different qualities she is attracted to and she doesn’t want to lose either one.

Is it selfish?  I think yes it is Indeed very selfish, what do you think ?

Would you ever want to fall in love ? If it were you, then would you still want to make her your life partner ?

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Scenario 2 :

What if you met a women on internet and you guys are madly and deeply in love with each other & then one day you somehow found out that your woman is also writing the same things to someone else as well  & she tried her level best to make sure that all that stays hidden from you but somehow you get to know &  you find out that she is expressing her love in the same manner to other man as she does with you.

 you also see she is also sharing her  intimate feelings with  other man as she does with you,  so what is it ?

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Is it possible that she is in true love with both the men ?

Is she just making fool of both the men and playing with their

feelings and emotions ?

 if yes, then why would someone do such a thing ?

If no, then what is it and why is she doing such a thing ?  

Is it just because that she thinks that she is on the internet and hence no one would know about it ?

What if just because you thought that she loves you truly and deeply like you do, you had plans of getting married to her , what should you do in such a case ?

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FYI : How many of you believe this ?Is this really true ? If yes then why ?

Take as the sign of a change, yes, big change, as reports have found that women now have seriously started asking – Why should guys should have all the fun? So the reports suggest that increasingly a large number of turning their backs to fidelity, while are in the arms with cheating on their partners.

The new study at least not kicks out the nonsensical belief that it was men do all the “goofing around,” while women in all her goodness remained faithful to her boorish husband. As the new shocking UK poll has found that women are more likely to cheat on their partners than men.

The study found that four out of ten admitted on cheating on their partners, while only 3 out of 10 men said that they were unfaithful to their mates.

The poll found that of the 3,000 participants, two fifths of the women ended up kissing someone while out clubbing and almost one in four cheated with a colleague at a work event.

Some 55 per cent of the ladies confessed that they loved attention from men whereas a third said men often get the wrong idea because they were so flirtatious. However, a third of them also said that their “minor indiscretion” happened by accident because their flirting got out of hand.

Interestingly at least one in ten women also said that they will never be monogamous in their relationship, while a fifth of them confessed of knowing that it was wrong but found cheating on their partner too thrilling to ignore.

Strangers were high on the sexy list of the women as one in four women said they found complete strangers attractive and loved the thrill of chasing them on a night out. Women also said that they loved the thrill of being with a man in uniform.

The study was conducted by Opera North to open their new season with the Mozart opera Cosi fan tutte, translated as ‘All Women Are Like That’ – a light-hearted comedy that looks at the very nature of infidelity.

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Internet infidelity – Online Infidelity is wrecking many relationships

With technology ruling our world, it is little wonder that it would enter into areas we never dreamed possible. Ten years ago, would you have ever thought it possible to pursue a relationship with someone, or even fall in love, sight unseen? But that is exactly what is happening to many – over the Internet. And while there is nothing wrong with Internet dating, it takes on a whole new meaning when it comes in the way of an existing relationship.

In fact, Internet infidelity has actually been cited as a reason for divorce in many cases. It is the sign of a new trend in how online relationships have assumed a new importance in today’s world. So is it really harmful?

There are some (mostly the ones indulging in it) who take the point of view that it is harmless – after all you’re just having a conversation with someone, nothing more. But is that all there is to it? There are others who opine that as long as you are spending time, sometimes hours, with another individual of the opposite sex, discussing personal details, even flirting or conversing with sexual undertones, how innocent can it be?

And just like an alcoholic or a substance abuser starts with a few drinks or a trial experiment, chatting and emails lead to exchange of photographs, calls and finally meetings. And very soon it has become a full-blown affair. Internet infidelity has crossed geographical boundaries too where those involved have been willing to negotiate distances and contend with secretly meeting without their spouses’ knowledge, to take the relationship one step further.

And what if it happens to you? What if your partner is indulging in Internet infidelity?

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1. When should you suspect?

2. How can you be sure?

3. If Internet infidelity is destroying your relationship.

4. What should you do if your love/ partner/spouse were being unfaithful online and you want to stop?

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The reason internet infidelity is so widespread is because it offers a bit of mystery and allure. You’re able to freely socialize with someone without the conflicts that come with face to face interaction.

It allows you to enter a world of fantasy.

But don’t brush this off as something you should not be concerned about. Internet infidelity is the same as emotional infidelity minus the face to face contact.

 

Is it a sin?

Yes.

Sex, Lies and the Internet by Helene Fuchs

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With my best wishes and regards may this never happens to anyone or anybody ever !!

If you say you love me once, can I count on that forever?
All I hear is the echo of my lonely voice.
All I hear is the echo of my lonely voice.

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Wounded. Hopes not lost, but still I am down
Seeking that something I can’t seem to find
In silent pain, tears! No sound.
Or living a lie and flying only in my mind.

Hemant Khurana

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13 comments on “Internet and Infidelity : “Is it possible for a woman to love_two_or more men at the same time????”

  1. Pingback: Internet and Infidelity : “Is it possible for a woman to love_two_or more men at the same time????” » Greece on WEB

  2. Sorry about your lost, My mom had breast cancer too! she had it when i was 13 and then go it again earlier this year she is having her last reconstructive surgery on wednesday. My mom will be 48 on the 14th! Im surprised you never been to the US, why is that? Wow you have alot of working experience with some great companies you would successful if u came here and worked.

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  3. Wow i would have never knew unless you told me…so do you like working for Atlantic Wireless? Yeah its real hot here too i had to drive with my AC on! So have you ever been to the US?

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    • Well I have never been to US but always worked for US organizations
      Before this I have worked with American express bank I use to handle the Platinum credit card sales process, then I have worked with Dell Computers technical support as a team manager
      I have worked with all US UK and Australian organizations, most of the US organization have outsourced their business over here in India, this is the first time I am working with retail sector, anyhow its fun however my best experience was with Dell computers, but i had to leave dell coz at that point in time my mother was suffering from breast cancer she passed away two years back after suffering for almost 6 years, she was in her 40’s only since I am the only son so I have to stay close to my father as he has gone into depression because of my mumm, so the closest option available was this place where I am now with you guys……………… with Bawa and Zara !

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    • Well I have never been to US but always worked for US organizations
      Before this I have worked with American express bank I use to handle the Platinum credit card sales process, then I have worked with Dell Computers technical support as a team manager
      I have worked with all US UK and Australian organizations, most of the US organization have outsourced their business over here in India, this is the first time I am working with retail sector, anyhow its fun however my best experience was with Dell computers, but i had to leave dell coz at that point in time my mother was suffering from breast cancer she passed away two years back after suffering for almost 6 years, she was in her 40’s only since I am the only son so I have to stay close to my father as he has gone into depression because of my mumm, so the closest option available was this place where I am now with you guys……………… with Bawa and Zara !

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  4. Hey Hemant,

    Thanks, hopefully i’ll find my prince one day….i keep getting frogs lol! 🙂
    I didnt know you worked in India, i thought you were in the US…o wow how is it over there?

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    • Hahahah, Yeah I know most of the people think I work in US even though we talk daily over the phone and every now and then we communicate thru emails still nobody knew, I manage all the operations and back office for all the 12 stores of Atlantic wireless from here in New Delhi India we have a big team over here , and its great yeah, the weather here is hot now……. but it rains every now and then so its good, but the only draw back is that we work at night, at the time when you open your store is opened then the time here in india is 8:00 pm in night …….

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  5. This was a great subject i believe this affects both males and females. But there being selfish. This happend to me with a ex boyfriend who claimed he was in love with me and another woman. I say he cheated because he could control her and not me. She was needy and dependent on him where as i wasnt im independent and have my self together i didnt need him for material goods just love and companionship….

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    • Dont worry Tiff I am sure soon your shall be meeting your prince charming, I know you deserve the best yeah,

      Q How can I say that ?

      Well its been quite a while that I am working here with Verizon but when ever I speak with you over the phone I feel good you give me such great positive vibes, god bless ya, you surely deserve the best…

      Hey by the way Tiff do you know that where are we located ? well we manage the operations and back office from New Delhi, India, thats where I work, did you know that ?

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  6. I speak and dream of love and beauty as if it were already mine
    The more I desire, the quicker it eludes my grasp
    Can I bear the crushing of my heart time after time?
    I laugh; can no longer cry and already have died perhaps
    Crucify me now! That I may feel a pain greater than the one I bear
    Are listening? Can you hear through the doors of my soul?
    No. It’s apart of me, wishing it or I would disappear
    Or gather tiny pieces back together in a whole.
    Each piece – a puzzle finest as the dust of the earth
    These seeds have but one want – growing whole in love again
    But carries with it all I am and all that I am worth
    I’ll seek until I die and prove my love was not in vain.

    All in this world and life may not be as it seems
    Reality may lie within the dreamer and his dreams.

    Happy 😦

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  7. THIS IS VERY DEEP SUBJECT!! I BELIEVE THE RIGHT PERSON WHO TRULY LOVES ONLY YOU WILL BE THERE, WANTING TO LOVE ONLY YOU, BUT THE INTERNET ONLY ALLOWS PEOPLE TO MAKE FOOLS OF THEM SELVES BECAUSE THEY THEMSELVES ARE FOOLS, PLAYING WITH OTHERS EMOTIONS IF NOT AND NEVER BEEN THE CORRECT THING TO DO. WOMEN WHO LOVE MORE THAN ONE PERSON AT A TIME ARE NOT WHO YOU SHOULD BE IN LOVE WITH. SAYING I LOVE YOU TO OTHERS ALL THE TIME MEANS YOU ARE TRULY NOT SURE WHAT LOVE IS, THEY NEED TO READ ABOUT WHAT IS LOVE OR IN LOVE MEANS<3

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